the dark cloud of limitations

Several years ago, I participated in a guided dialogue via email with a group of people with disabilities. One of our earliest assignments was to describe ourselves in terms of our limitations. Our facilitator said that typically people have difficulty with this assignment; and throughout the time that I knew him, he maintained that he […]

We couldn’t quite wait for Valentine’s Day… What is M&Ms doing to us?

One agreement Kevin and I made was that we would not make a big deal out of Valentine’s Day. It would be a fun day that we shared with each other with a dinner that we both enjoyed. We would perhaps get each other something, but there were no requirements about flowers or big gifts. […]

a unique and truly memorable wedding

A note from Sarah: Kevin and I had several meetings with the pastor in preparation for our wedding, which was scheduled on June 9. We planned initially for the ceremony ot be open to members of our church as well as a number of invited guests from the local community and out of town. We […]

“since” vs. “because”

Greek words often have multiple meanings in English. So a clause may be translated either “If [blah blah blah]” or “since [blah blah blah]”. Of course, this distinction is very important when doing biblical translation. But I’m not translating right now. I’m just thinking about life… Think of the difference between saying, “if I am […]

Kevin’s and my thoughts on social relationships

Kevin and I have talked at length about our concerns with regard to getting married. It is very important to both of us that we develop a good social network, both as a couple and individually. We need to balance out the time we spend on our own relationship, time we spend on other relationships, […]

narrative preaching about the hemorrhaging woman

When I preached about the woman with the twelve-year hemorrhage, I dramatized… I talked about her going to doctor after doctor, dealing with pain, etc. I said, “I got used to the pain… But I never got used to the aloneness. People stopped coming around because they didn’t want to hear it… I never got […]

disability studies, touch, and theology

I recently read an article in which the author relates an experience in which a male priest makes the sign of the cross on her forehead as he passes her while leaving her niece’s confirmation service. She is offended in part because a man touched her without her permission and in part because she is […]

nine weeks post-surgery and Loretta’s work in California

I am spending the week in California, first having a little time with friends and then at the annual conference for the Society of Biblical Literature/American Academy of Religion. Being in an area that is not familiar to me is giving me and Loretta a good workout and opportunity to evaluate how we work together […]

nine weeks post-surgery and Loretta’s work in California

I am spending the week in California, first having a little time with friends and then at the annual conference for the Society of Biblical Literature/American Academy of Religion. Being in an area that is not familiar to me is giving me and Loretta a good workout and opportunity to evaluate how we work together […]

thoughts on theology and the uncured body

I live in tension with many aspects of theology, but perhaps none more than prayer and healing. There is something in me that clings to health and will take advantage of every mechanism to obtain it. I have learned to temper this, to make reasonable decisions and not reach for just anything that promises health […]