My neighborhood was fairly quiet; and Elli and I could walk on residential sidewalks most of the time. Elli had to learn to ignore toads, which were plentiful in Texas during the summer. With my cane, I never thought about toads. With Elli, I knew about every toad we encountered–at least, until she learned to ignore them.
On one block, our route took us past a holly tree that overspread the sidewalk. Elli was trained to avoid overhanging objects; but occasionally she had her mind on other things (like the toads). This was apparently the case the first time we encountered the holly tree.
I ran into the tree at full speed. Thorns stuck in my arms and face. Elli stopped. I followed the procedure for correcting her for running me into a tree. I shook the holly tree, thorns and all, and said, “Pfui!” through my tears. I then took several paces back and commanded, “Forward.”
Elli took some tentative steps forward, turned left and walked into the street, making a wide berth around the holly tree. After passing the tree, she turned back toward the sidewalk and got back on course. I hugged her and praised her loudly.
A few weeks later, some relatives came to visit from out of town. I decided to take them out to watch Elli work. Elli and I set out, and the relatives followed at a good distance.
When we encountered the tree, Elli went out into the street. But she would not go back to the sidewalk. Instead, she looked back at my relatives, ensuring that they, too, skirted the tree.
Looking back at incidents like this, I realize how well Elli and I were bonding already, just in those first few weeks. It is normal for a person to wonder whether the bond with the dog is working. It takes some time for the relationship to become cemented. But a dog begins to show that she will work for the person early in the relationship. One of my later trainers said, “When you go home, you are your dog’s trainer.” Whatever behaviors I reinforce, the dog will continue.
This Series
To the Dogs and Beyond 11: Would I Ever Like to Drive?
Tuesday March 1st, 2016 12:00:33 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 10: My Humbling
Monday February 29th, 2016 12:00:43 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 09: Elli’s Great Distraction
Monday February 22nd, 2016 12:00:31 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 08: The Great Nap
Saturday February 20th, 2016 12:00:55 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 07: The Tree
Friday February 19th, 2016 12:00:08 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 06: Elli and the Cat
Thursday February 18th, 2016 12:00:32 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 05: The Parking Lot
Wednesday February 17th, 2016 12:00:53 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 04: What a Big Mouth You Have
Tuesday February 16th, 2016 12:00:10 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 03: Waiting for Dog
Monday February 15th, 2016 12:00:00 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 02: Into the Lion’s Den
Monday February 15th, 2016 01:03:29 AM Sarah Blake LaRoseTo the Dogs and Beyond 01: Stepping Out of Dog Fear
Sunday February 7th, 2016 10:27:14 PM Sarah Blake LaRoseFeed aggregation powered by Syndicate Press.
Processed request in 0.00201 seconds.
- Learning From My Younger Self - February 10, 2024
- more reflections on ITD - June 30, 2023
- On travel while at ITD: reflections after day 1 - June 27, 2023
- ITD day 1 - June 27, 2023
- ITD day 1 - June 27, 2023
- Job Descriptions, Inclusivity, and Equity for People with Disabilities - October 15, 2022
- Traveling without a Guide Dog: Experience with Cane and Walker - October 14, 2022
- Disability and Church, Intersection - June 11, 2022
- Review: When Chronic Pain and Illness Take Everything Away - June 11, 2022
- Grammar and Style Resources for Writers - June 9, 2022